Women's Rights in Islam by Dr. Muhammad Sharif Chaudhry (Chapter 23)

 

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WOMEN'S RIGHTS IN ISLAM

By Dr. Muhammad Sharif Chaudhry

 

CHAPTER 23

Obligations of Woman

 

  1. Verses of Al-Qur'an

  2. Ahadith of the Holy Prophet

  3. Obligations in the Light of the Qur'an and Hadith

I ‑ VERSES OF THE QUR'AN

Obligations of the Muslim Woman have been highlighted by the Qur'an in its following verses:‑

  1. And be steadfast in prayers; practise regular charity; and bow down your heads with those who bow down (in worship). (2:43)

  2. The mothers shall give suck to their offspring for two whole years. (2:233)

  3. Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has given the one more (strength) than the other, and because they support them from their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient, and guard in (the husband's) absence what Allah would have them guard. As to those women on whose part ye fear disloyalty and ill‑conduct, admonish them (first), .(next), refuse to share their beds, (and last) beat them (lightly):but if they return to obedience, seek not against them means (of annoyance):for Allah is Most High, Great (above you all). (4:34)

  4. It is He Who created you from a single person, and made his mate of like nature, in order that he might dwell with her (in love). When they are united, she bears a light burden and carries it about (unnoticed). When she grows heavy, they both pray to Allah their Lord, (saying):"if Thou givest us a goodly child, we vow we shall (ever) be grateful." (7:189)

  5. And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof; that they should draw their veils over their bosoms and not display their beauty except to their husbands, their fathers, their husbands' fathers, their sons, their husbands' sons, their brothers or their brother's sons, or their sisters' sons or their women, or the slaves whom their right hands possess, or male servants free of physical needs, or small children who have no sense of the shame of sex; and that they should not strike their foot in order to draw attention to their hidden ornaments. And O ye Believers! Turn ye all together towards Allah, that ye may attain bliss. (24:31)

  6. O Prophet! when believing women come to thee to take the oath of fealty to thee, that they will not associate in worship any other thing whatever with Allah, that they will not steal, that they will not commit adultery (or fornication), that they will not kill their children, that they will not utter slander, intentionally forging falsehood, and that they will not disobey thee in any just matter,‑ then do thou receive their fealty, and pray to Allah for the forgiveness (of their sins):for Allah is oft‑Forgiving, Most Merciful. (60:12)

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II ‑ AHADITH OF THE PROPHET

Ahadith of the Prophet (may Allah's peace be upon him) of Islam on the obligations and duties of Muslim woman are:‑

  1. Abu Omamah reported from the Messenger of Allah‑who used to say: Next to fear of Allah the believer finds nothing good for him than a virtuous wife. If he bids her, she obeys him; if he looks at her she gives him pleasure; if he gives her a promise, she fulfils it, and if he is absent from her, she guards herself and his property. (Ibn Majah)

  2. Jaber‑b‑Abdullah reported that the Messenger of Allah said: Fear Allah regarding women. Verily you have married them with trust of Allah and made their private parts lawful with the word of Allah. You have got (rights) over them that they entertain nobody to your beds which you dislike. If they do this, give them a beating without causing injury. They have got (rights) over you in respect of their food and clothing according to means. (Bukhari and Muslim)

  3. Anas reported that the Messenger of Allah said:When a woman says her five (prayers) and fasts her month, and guards her private parts, and obeys her husband, let her enter Paradise by whichever door she likes. (Abu Nayeem in Hilya)

  4. In his famous Farewell Address, delivered at Arafat on the occasion of last pilgrimage in 10 A.H., the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) declared: "Well then, people! verily there are rights in favour of your women which are incumbent upon you, and there are rights in favour of you which are incumbent upon them. As to what is incumbent upon them in your regard, is that they should not let your beds be trampled by others than you, should not allow those to enter your houses whom you do not like without your authorization, and should not commit turpitude. If they do commit that, then God has given you permission to reprimand them, to separate yourself from them in beds, and to strike them but not hard. If they abstain and obey you, then it is incumbent upon you to provide their food and dress in accordance with good custom. And I command you to treat women well, because they are like captives in your houses, possessing nothing for themselves, and you, on your part, take them as a deposit from God, and permit yourselves the enjoyment of their persons by means of a word of God. Have therefore the fear of God with regard to women, and I order you to treat them well. Attention! Have I communicated? O God, be witness!" (Ibn Hasham quoted by Dr. Hamidullah)

  5. Ayesha reported that Asma'a daughter of Abu‑Bakr came to the Messenger of Allah while there were thin clothes on her. He approached her and said O Asma'a! when a girl reaches the menstrual time, it is not proper that anything on her should remain exposed except this and this. He hinted on her face and palms. (Abu Daud)

  6. Anas reported that the Messenger of Allah said: Search for knowledge is compulsory upon every Muslim male and Muslim female. (Ibn Majah)

  7. Abu Hurairah reported that the Messenger of Allah was asked: Who among women ‑is the best? He replied: she who gives pleasure to him (husband) when he looks, obeys him when he bids, and who does not oppose him regarding herself and her riches fearing his displeasure. (Nisai)

  8. Abu Omamah reported that the Messenger of Allah said: There are three from whom their prayer and prayer‑call are not accepted‑a fugitive slave till he returns, a woman who passes the night while her husband is displeased with her, and a leader of a people while they do not like him. [Tirmizi (rare)]

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III ‑ OBLIGATIONS IN THE LIGHT OF QUR'AN AND HADITH

Rights of the human beings go along with their corresponding obligations. Since the rights of women in Islam have been discussed by us in the foregoing chapters, 'we would now focus on the obligations and duties which have been assigned to her .by Islam. Briefly stated, following are some of the obligations which a Muslim woman is supposed to perform:‑

  1. Her first and foremost duty is, as is in the case of a Muslim male also, to worship God. She must believe in Allah alone and must not assign any partners to Him. She must also believe and testify that Muhammad (may Allah's peace be upon him) is the Messenger of Allah. She is also duty‑bound to perform all the religious obligations like prayer, Zakat, fasting and Hajj. She is obliged to lead her life in accordance with the teachings of Islam.

  2. In addition to her duties to Allah and religion of Al-­Islam, a Muslim woman is also obliged to perform certain duties towards her husband. The duty of the husband is to provide for the sustenance and livelihood for his wife and children, while the obligation of the wife is to manage the household. In the absence of the husband, she must guard herself and her husband's property. She must be obedient to her husband and must be a source of love, affection, consolation, satisfaction and peace for her husband. Duties of the woman to her husband have been briefly referred to by the Qur'an in its verse No. 34 of chapter 4, while the Prophet of Islam in his Traditions has explained these duties in detail According to the Prophet (PBUH), the best woman is she who gladdens her husband when he looks at her, obeys him when he bids her and does not oppose him regarding herself and her property. Again the Prophet of Islam said in respect of women that they should not let the beds of their husbands be trampled by others, should not commit turpitude and should not allow those to enter their houses whom their husbands do not like.

  3. The most important duty of the woman is child‑bearing and child‑rearing. She is responsible for bringing up and training the children. Since the elementary education of the children depends upon the mother, a woman is required to get education, search for .knowledge and acquire learning. She must train her children and teach them good manners. Her role in the character‑building of the children is very important.

  4. A woman must guard her modesty, keep chaste and should lower her gaze when she comes out of her house. She must not disclose her beauty and ornaments, before strangers, must dress properly anus cover herself. She can only keep her face and her hands exposed ‑ (For details see the chapter on Purdah).

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