WHAT CAN I DO TO HELP AS A SISTER?
Around
the Muslim world, many of the people donating the most money to the
'effort' are the women.
It is not the amount that is given but the
sincerity of the person who gives it.Therefore the first and most
important thing that sisters can do is to donate money and to raise
it amongst their families, friends and others.To fulfil their
obligations in one way by the collection and donation of funds. For
the sake of helping Islam and the suffering families in areas that
are needed most help.
Fard 'Ain: for the males, which means
that every able bodied man must participate in the 'effort' else he
is sinful. If a wife or mother prevents her husband or son from
participating in the 'effort' then she is sinful for EVERY drop of
blood that is spilt and otherwise may have been saved if this brother
was to go. The one who ABANDONS the 'effort' is like the one who
abandons Prayer and Fasting.The 'effort' is an obligation amongst the
many obligations of Islam, such as Prayer, Fasting, Hajj, Zakah,
seeking knowledge, earning a livelihood, etc. If one of these is
compromised, then the whole Deen of an individual and the Muslim
community as a whole suffers.We advise our sisters to be wives,
mothers and sisters of MEN not males, TIGERS not sheep, HEROES not
cowards and WARRIORS not weaklings.
The donating of money: for
a sister is PART of her obligation; the other part is to encourage
the male members of her family to participate in the'effort' , and,
until the males are able to do so,
to donate money, train
themselves in physical pursuits such as running, martial arts, and
strengthing there SpiritualStruggle, For the sake of helping Islam
and the suffering families in areas that are needed most
help.
Today, many brothers fear getting married as the
majority of sisters, especially in the West, are amazed by the
glitter of the Western way of life, and not willing to sacrifice for
the Eternal Life. The wife of a Shaheed, will be with him in the
highest part of Paradise, and she will be many times more beautiful,
than she was in this life, and she will be more beautiful to him,
than all his other wives in the Paradise. Therefore it is also in the
interests of the sisters, to encourage and pray for the 'Eternal
Life' of their husbands, and to bear the news patiently when, or if,
it happens - Inshaa' Allah.
Going: to the Lands of the
'effort' with their husbands or other Mahram males Participating in
activities such as educational and Dawah work amongst female refugees
teaching children, nursing and
medical help in the hospitals, and
looking after the families and sick.However, this should only be done
if the mahram males of the sister go themselves. It is incorrect for
sisters to travel to these places
by themselves. Unfortunately
there are no organisations that exist to arrange for sisters to take
part in the 'effort' . It is up to married sisters to arrange such
things themselves with male co-operating Mahram relatives. Helping:
to sell audio and video cassettes, books and distribution of leaflets
in addition to helping organise fund collection amongst women in
their communities, especially in Ramadhan, and charity events and
ventures, For the sake of helping Islam and the suffering
families
in areas that are needed most help.
Increasing your knowledge
of Islam: another often neglected role that our sisters can play is
in the increasing and learning of knowledge in the other fields of
Islam, such as the concentration in Salah, correct recitation and
memorisation of Qur'an, study of the correct 'Aqeedah (belief),
Seerah (Life of the Prophet SAW), lives of the Sahaabah and
Sahaabiyyat.
Malcolm X once said: 'To educate a man is to
educate an individual and to educate a woman is to educate a nation.'
"Therefore one of the best ways that our sisters can
help us is by increasing their knowledge of Islam in a way that will
benefit Islam"
(At the very least, not to forget in their
duas the fighters who have sold the life of this World and are
struggling for the Sake of Allah so that the rest of us can live in
peace, and to ask Allah to accept the Shuhadaa (martyrs) amongst
them.)(parts of this article was from:
http://jihaadulkuffaarin.jeeran.com
and
http://azzam.com
(For
info only,these sites donot promote, pro or anti on any such subject
of terrorism etc.)
Home - Quran & Hadith Charity - Family & Health Islam Miscellaneous Matrimonials
Human Rights - Women Newscenter Boycott Chechnya Palestine - Links